to overfunction in love
oh-ver-fuhn(k)-shuhn | verb
- To be in a one-sided, unfulfilling relationship with an Underfunctioning Partner
- To feel confused, disappointed, exhausted, and resentful...but only with them
- To constantly wonder what else you can do to make them "get it" and grow up
You're exhausted
from doing it all.
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You want peace, but have endless chaos
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You want resolution, but get deflection and blame
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You want connection, but feel more alone than ever
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You want emotional safety, but tiptoe on eggshells
Their Underfunctioning nonsense has you drowning in confusion, guilt, and loneliness.
I got you!
Hi, I'm Dr. Ashley
I get what it's like to be an Overfunctioning Woman in Love, because I once was one, too. I spent two decades of my life over-explaining, over-focused on them, and over-accommodating their immature and selfish behavior...all in the hopes that eventually they would step up and finally be the partner I knew they could be. ​
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Eventually, I burnt myself out. I developed a severe autoimmune disorder. And I felt like I was going crazy. I knew something had to change...and I knew it started with me. ​So I began the sacred journey back home to myself, what I now call Self-Restoration. Years later, I am happy, healthy, and at peace. And now I'm here to teach you how to do this ~ because you deserve to live in peace... regardless of what your partner does or doesn't do.
Become a Self-Restored Woman
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CLASSES
My On-Demand Masterclasses teach you, step-by-step, HOW to become the confident and self-respecting woman you were always meant to be!
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Simply pick the class that's right for you, enroll, and start watching. Enjoy lifetime access!
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COMMUNITY
The Self-Restoration Community is a private, online, women-only space where Overfunctioning Women come together to do "the work" of healing.
This space is packed with meaningful conversations, resources, and direct contact with Dr. Ashley.
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CONSULTING
Later in 2025, Dr. Ashley will begin providing individual and small group consulting for Overfunctioning Women working on specific aspects of Self-Restoration.
Get on the email list to be notified when these spots open up.
So Grateful for the Opportunity to
Help Women Self-Restore 💕
Don't lose any more time wondering if you're crazy.
You're not...you're IN crazy.
And if you're not careful, you could spend many more years (decades?) trying to be a better communicator, working hard to need as little as possible, and hoping they'll change. Only to be in the same spot you're in now.
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If you're ready to learn how to step back from Overfunctioning, effectively navigate their Underfunctioning nonsense, and become a Self-Restored Woman, then you are in the right spot!
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Whether you want an On-Demand Masterclass, an Online Community of women who "get it," or 1:1 Consulting with me, I've got you covered.
I can't wait to support you on your journey to clarity, peace, and self-respect!
I'm so glad you're here.
In this little corner of the internet, your pain is seen and understood. Here, I will hold the lantern for you while you become the Self-Restored Woman you were always meant to be.
xoxo ~ Dr. Ashley 💞
