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Outsmarting Your Own Guilt

10 Ways to Stop 'Feeling Bad' and Start Feeling Empowered

75-min On-Demand Mini-Masterclass + PDF Guide

Act now ~ this class will only be available for purchase through 12/31/25.

Get LIFETIME access to the content.

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Are you constantly 'feeling bad' for
your Underfunctioning Partner?

You hate to see them struggle.

You know they need help with this whole relationship thing.

 

You want to treat them the way you want to be treated.

You feel so bad for them...

...at the expense of you feeling good.

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I know this guilt all too well.

I was once drowning in it, too.

For years, I was the wife 'feeling bad' for my partner.

 

I hated seeing them struggle, even when they brought it on themselves.

I worked overtime to make things easier, more comfortable, and better for them (helloooooo Overfunctioning)...all at the expense of my own feelings, needs, and well-being.

Years ~ decades, actually ~  of trying to keep them comfy cozy while I was dying inside, eventually left me feeling burnt-out and so angry at them.

Guilt was getting me nowhere fast...

...in fact, our relationship dynamic was getting worse!

 

My resentment was growing exponentially.

Their Underfunctioning was intensifying.

'Feeling bad' was not making things good.

Outsmarting Your Own Guilt

Introducing the Mini-Masterclass...

10 Ways to Stop 'Feeling Bad' and Start Feeling Empowered

In this 75-minute on-demand class, I teach you 10 unique ways to re-think your guilt, and give you practical things to do today to stop 'feeling bad' for them, and start feeling empowered! And this is NOT generic AI-generated content...it's wisdom accrued over the last 20+ years of my personal and professional experiences, delivered with my signature approach of giving you deep, high-quality content using simple, non-jargon language and examples.

 

You will learn about:

💔 True Guilt vs. False Guilt: how to know when guilt is helping…or leading you astray

🌪️ Manipulation vs. Self-Respect: how emotionally immature partners hook you into ‘feeling bad’ for them…and how to stop falling for it

🦋 Guilt vs. Grief: how guilt often hides a deeper, sacred grief, and how making space for grief unlocks Self-Restoration

🔥 Comfort vs. Struggle: why protecting their comfort zone is harming you both, and how stepping back actually supports their growth

Here's what you get the minute you enroll:

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Over 75 minutes of

Professional Education

($500 value)

Learn 10 tried-and-true strategies for stepping out of guilt and Overfunctioning.

Backed by 22 years of professional experience as a clinical therapist and college instructor, coupled with my own journey out of Overfunctioning and into Self-Restoration. These are not AI-generated...they are hard-earned gems of wisdom.

A Gorgeous PDF

Bonus Guide

($50 value)

No need to take notes! You get a beautifully designed, easy-to-follow guide to keep you on track.

 

Use this to refer back to for quick reminders, and as a study guide for learning these 10 strategues so you can implement them consistently with yourself and your partner.

TOTAL VALUE = Over $500

Your Price Today = Just $39

"How long will I have access to this course?"

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For the lifetime of the program!

The Self-Restoration Journey is an ever-evolving process. Every time you go through the course, you will take away new insights. I want this to be a tool that you can always go back to when you're in need of a little tune-up.

And you will always get the most updated version of the class as new content is added!

💞 Hundreds of Women Have LOVED My Classes 💞

Only $29 for Members of

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Are you already a member of The Self-Restoration Community? Grab the coupon code inside the community to save $10 off your class registration (enter it at checkout when registering for the class).

Not yet a member of this private, online, women-only Community? This is an incredibly healing space where Self-Restoring Women are doing their healing work together (alongside me, Dr. Ashley). And we all know the magic that happens when women come together in shared pain and lift each other up. Learn more about The Self-Restoration Community here. When you join, you'll get access to the coupon code to save $10 off your registration for this class.

Act now ~ this class will only be available for purchase through 12/31/25.

Get LIFETIME access to the content.

💞 More LOVE for My Masterclasses 💞

All the Details 📆

📆 Instant access the moment you enroll

💻 Lifetime access to all of the content, including a gorgeous 70-slide deck.

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📓 Beautiful PDF Guide so you don't have to take notes

🎁 Special holiday price: $39! I know times are tough for so many right now, so I am very happy to be offering this at a hugely reduced rate. But this deal will only be available through 12/31/25. 

 

🦋 Members of The Self-Restoration Community save $10. If you’re already a member, grab the coupon code inside the Community before registering. If you’re not a member and want to Bundle & Save, join the Community here and then grab the coupon code inside to register for the Masterclass for just $29.

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Your one-time enrollment gets you immediate access to all of this!​

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Due to the digital nature of this course and immediate access to all content, no refunds are given.​​​​

Self-Restoration is an invitation to

be compassionate with boundaries,

and feel good without apology. 

It's your turn. 🔥

Act now ~ this class will only be available for purchase through 12/31/25.

Get LIFETIME access to the content.

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